December 30, 2022
#Reading | Books To Read As We Embrace 2023
December 23, 2022
The Universe Has Your Back
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Overview
In her book, The Universe Has Your Back,New York Times best-selling author Gabrielle Bernstein teaches readers how to transform their fear into faith in order to live a divinely guided life. Each story and lesson in the book guides readers to release the blocks to what they most long for: happiness, security and clear direction. The lessons help readers relinquish the need to control so they can relax into a sense of certainty and freedom. Readers will learn to stop chasing life and truly live. Making the shift from fear to faith will give readers a sense of power in a world that all too often makes them feel utterly powerless. When the tragedies of the world seem overwhelming, this book will help guide them back to their true power.
Gabrielle says, “My commitment with this book is to wake up as many people as possible to their connection to faith and joy. In that connection, we can be guided to our true purpose: to be love and spread love. These words can no longer be cute buzz phrases that we merely post on social media. Rather, these words must be our mission. The happiness, safety, and security we long for lies in our commitment to love.” When readers follow this path, they’ll begin to feel a swell of energy move through them. They will find strength when they are down, synchronicity and support when they’re lost, safety in the face of uncertainty, and joy when they are otherwise in pain. Follow the secrets revealed in this book to unleash the presence of your power and know always that The Universe Has Your Back. Credit: The Universe Has Your Back
Meet the Author
Gabrielle Bernstein is the #1 New York Times bestselling author of The Universe Has Your Back, Super Attractor and has written six additional bestsellers including her latest book, Super Attractor. Gabrielle was featured on Oprah’s SuperSoul Sunday as a “next-generation thought leader,” and The Oprah Winfrey Network chose Gabby to be part of the “SuperSoul 100,” a dynamic group of 100 trailblazers whose vision and life’s work are bringing a higher level of consciousness to the world. The New York Times identified her as “a new role model.” Credit: Gabrielle Bernstein.
December 16, 2022
The People We Keep
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December 08, 2022
Kiss My Boots by Jennifer Learmont
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Jennifer, Welcome to Authors by Sasha. Kiss My Boots is a memoir described as provocative & steamy reflecting your adventures in the 80's and 90's in Hollywood. What made you decide it was the right time to pen a memoir?
I wasn't sure what the right time was to write this memoir, but it started out with my ex-husband writing his own. I am in a couple of his chapters which didn't shine a great light on me; it didn't explain where I came from, or where I ended up or why his story unfolded the way it did. He contacted me in 2017 and I worked with him for a couple of years, doing some research. Then I thought I should write my story from a girl’s point of view.
I was tired of hiding my past; people would ask me questions and my answers just provoked more questions, so I decided to just put it all out there. It started out as a journal for my family, but it just took its own journey into a book. I thought, “take me or leave me but here is the story.”
What was your backstory prior to embarking upon a three month journey to the United States that resulted in a twenty year tenure in the country?
My back story was from a very dysfunctional childhood, which I thought was a good segue into why I did what I did, and the choices that I made. I couldn't wait to go to the USA; I loved everything about it - the music, the entertainment industry, Tinseltown. It was very intriguing to me as a young girl; it was where all my heroes were from.
Adhering to no rules comes with risk. What were you trying to accomplish by abolishing all constraints which could affect your growth and success at a young age?
Really, I didn't even think of what “no rules” or “no limits” were. It wasn't a plan; it was just the way I was, my makeup. I was a free spirit and I had no plans. I have to say that time of my life was a time that I lived purely in the moment, not thinking of consequences at all but just living. It was so exciting; it was pure freedom. I’m really glad I got to that; it’s rare.
What is the greatest risk you’ve taken in life that has paid off?
All the risks that I have taken, whether it be with criminals or being a Domme, paid off because I have an incredible story to tell. The adventures that I lived in were unique. I have amazing friends to this day from that life whether it be ex-clients, girls I've worked with or just all the colorful characters I met along the way. I've always lived life to the fullest and wanted to experience everything, so to me that life paid off in that way.
Jennifer, what was the younger version of yourself seeking from life and how have your life experiences evolved for what you’re seeking today?
I had a childhood of neglect, no security, going to so many schools, never staying in one place for very long, always being a new kid at school. I think I was seeking to belong and maybe that's why I experienced everything that was thrown at me, to fit in. Don’t get me wrong; I was wild and had so much fun seeking all this.
I have learnt a lot. Today I'm seeking the opposite: pure health and peace of mind. I'm also very careful of who I choose to spend time with, but I think I'm still seeking security in some sort of way.
Having lived the sex, drugs and rock n’ roll lifestyle, what surprised you the most about the celebrity lifestyle?
Well, as the old cliché goes, celebrities are no different than everybody else; they still have the same insecurities. Still, it did surprise me, the sheer decadence and wealth of some of these people, especially with me coming from a poor background.
What is the greatest misconception about Hollywood?
Well, everybody goes to Hollywood thinking it's this amazing place where your dreams may come true, but in reality it's very dangerous. It's very dark and it's very sad. Everybody has stars in their eyes but it's also very hard to avoid substance abuse, especially if it's not going so well. It's a bad place to just go to without knowing anyone because you’re basically a sitting duck. Having said that, I had some of the best times of my life, saw and heard some of the best music and met some of the best people. Hollywood's a funny place; it's bright and dark, comic and tragic. Everywhere has that but in Hollywood it's magnified millions of times.
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Among your adventures referenced in your memoir Kiss My Boots, you’ve also worked as a dominatrix for fourteen years. How were you introduced to the exciting and exotic world of dominatrix prior to becoming a professional in the field?
How I became a Domme was simply that I had met a girl at the gym that thought I was perfect for a Domme: I was beautiful with a strong personality. I also needed a job. I built up the courage to go in and have an interview, and the rest is history.
Dominatrix represents a woman who physically and / or psychologically dominates her partner in sadomasochistic encounters. It's considered a healthy channel of sexual exploration. What appealed to you about this lifestyle?
So to be clear, being a professional Domme does not involve physical sex; it’s all mind play. To be a good Domme you have to have tons of empathy and compassion, even be a therapist to these men. A lot of professional Dommes don’t live the lifestyle out of work.
I feel the job as a Domme filled a very important need for these people. Where would they go and what would they do without it?? It’s a serious need for many.
What appealed to me with this job was that I met some of the most amazing people, and I was attracted to how bizarre it all was. I liked seeing the grey side of life and the parts of people that nobody sees; to me that's very interesting, and that's exactly what you see in this job. These clients confided in us so deeply, I'm sure they told us things that nobody else on the planet knew about them. Believe me, there was a lot of humor in this job, too; it could be incredibly funny.
I have definitely learned that you can't judge a book by its cover, some of the most powerful men have some of the darkest fetishes. I did learn that most of these fetishes and needs came from early childhood. I learned to practice the art of non-judgement; everyone is just trying to get along in this world and some needs of this kind help them. I've always had a big heart and a lot of compassion, and I became stronger with this job; I really appreciate it.
There are many channels present for one to connect with their higher source. How were you introduced to the Interdenominational Church and its activities which also included a gospel choir?
I was doing a lot of cocaine and one of my clients who was a reformed drunk suggested I come with him to this church called The Sanctuary. It was right up my alley; there were celebrities, there were rock stars, and there was amazing music. Everyone was really healthy, and when I heard the gospel choir that was it for me! Of course, I didn't get involved in the choir right away because I had to pay my dues and attend for a while. Music was in my blood; all my family were musicians, so I really felt that I belonged there.
All the people that went there were musicians, artists or actors; so many celebrities there.
I couldn't believe how healthy everyone was and when I found out they were into power yoga, they showed me a new way of living which was life-changing.
Labeled as a self-proclaimed fearless child, did you ever encounter fear while living the highs and lows of the American lifestyle?
Yes, I did encounter fear, but I think I processed it differently than most people. I was resilient and strong, so I just brushed myself off and kept going. I never ever felt like I was a victim. I still have the fearless child in me but I'm a lot more responsible now. It's different when you're living a healthy clean life; you make good choices and choose your friends very carefully.
Everyone perceives fear to be different. In your opinion, what is the opposite of fear?
The opposite of fear is living a life without crazy experiences, as the old saying goes; your life begins at the end of your comfort zone, and that includes fear.
The memoir Kiss My Boots also presents a survival story. Keeping secrets can be considered a survival skill. Secrets can also be dangerous. What impact did living a secretive life have on your health, heart and sanity?
Keeping my life secret, I thought, was for survival but it was very damaging. I felt no one ever really knew me, and how could they? They definitely didn't understand me because my whole life was a façade. It was not real and it was a lie, what I told my family and friends was a made-up story. I wasn't sure what they would think of me.
Every person responds differently when existing outside of their comfort zone. Did you ever encounter homesickness when away from Australia?
I didn't get homesick for Australia so much, but I missed my family a lot. Once in a while I'd wake up in a panic, wondering “what am I still doing in the US,” but it just kept me hooked and I couldn't seem to leave.
The book Kiss My Boots has been nominated for Indie Book Awards (Non-Fiction), NSW Premier's Literary Awards (Non-Fiction & New Writing) and Queensland Literary Awards (Non-Fiction). How would you describe your writing experience from the point of conceptualizing the book to launching it in the market?
My writing experience so far has been mainly cathartic, purging deep things inside me that I have kept bottled up for so long. Offloading those experiences and putting them on paper make me feel light and free. I had never written anything before or even trained in the art of writing, but I just knew I had to get this down on paper. I think I did a good job.
What part of the writing process did you enjoy the most when penning Kiss My Boots?
It isn't easy launching your book onto the market. The whole process takes years with a lot of rejection. In the end I put it down on paper and no more have to lie.
Were there any parts of the book that were challenging to write?
I enjoyed the way the words just flowed out of me. I don't even know where it came from; it just came out. The pure freedom of it all! I laughed and I cried writing this book; it was fun and it was a great experience.
Can you kindly share two writing tips that can benefit new and seasoned writers?
I think the best tip is to really put out the nitty gritty and don’t hold back. I think people like the messy side of life. Be humble and honest, no matter how hard it is to expose yourself, especially if it's a memoir.
While growing up, what type of literature did you enjoy reading?
I have to say I didn't get a chance to read a lot because of my unstable upbringing and going to so many different schools. I did enjoy English and I was into reading a lot of the old classics, which I loved.
Is there a book that you enjoy reading which you wished you had written?
Catcher in the Rye.
Jennifer, as a proud Australian, how is the American social culture different from the Australian lifestyle?
I never thought that Australia and the USA were that much different. I don't think I ever had a huge culture shock except for the fact that everything's tenfold in America; it's like Australia in the future. It's a lot easier in Australia; the quality of life is a lot better.
Are there any new hobbies, or endeavors you’ve embarked upon since your return to Australia?
My hobbies now are still yoga. I'm a marriage celebrant. I love reading, being really healthy, friends, food, gym, writing and music.
What exciting new projects are you working on that audiences should keep an eye on?
I'm just about to start a second edition which will start in Hollywood and do a deep dive into all these characters, and especially the Domme world.
Please share with readers how they can support your work.
Please follow me on Instagram at jennifer_learmont and also at Shawline Publishing, Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and Goodreads.
December 01, 2022
Holy Parrot by Angel A
Angel A Joins Sasha in Conversation to Discuss His Latest Book 'HOLY PARROT'.
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November 27, 2022
The Fog Always Lifts
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Excerpt from "Fog" penned by Sasha Laghonh
Life can be challenging as we drive through the fog in the rain, we struggle for visibility when mother nature clouds our view. Similarly, the everyday emotions and biases we breathe in and out thrive as fog which hinder our ability to truly see life for what it is ... at face value. We can't control mother nature although we can control how we approach life matters.
It may take a chance encounter, or a monumental event for our heart's compass to start pointing North. When we resist the flow of life, it will reflect circumstances that become more challenging to resolve because our human egos (or perhaps naivety) lead us to believe the divine compass is absent, or even broken in our lives. The divine compass is not engineered to malfunction.
It's 'divine' after all, right?
The truth is we humans fail to make an effort to learn how the compass works. Perhaps some people know how to work a compass but they choose to side with impatience by taking matters into their own hands without consulting with their higher power.
Life works in mysterious ways.
A stranger can come into your path to deliver a message but you discount their presence because your divine compass is absent. You fail to read the situation well because you have lost sight of who you are and therefore everything in your reality becomes a blur. What you thought was real was only a mirage. What you thought was a hoax turns out to be real. It comes down to your beliefs. When you're ready to believe in something greater than yourself, the answers will appear clear before you.
Buckle up. Now turn on your windshield wipers and drive to your destination.
November 23, 2022
The Myth of Normal by Dr. Gabor Maté
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November 18, 2022
Faith Still Moves Mountains
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Overview
We need reminders of God’s power now more than ever. We often think about prayer as a wish list, with God as Santa Claus. The reality is that the power of prayer reminds us not only how small we are, but also how big God is. Prayer is hope put into action. And prayer works. From the aftermath of the devastating earthquake in Haiti to the theater shooting in Aurora, Colorado, believers testify to how God inspired hope even when all seemed lost. Two teenagers who were saved from treacherous seas by a vessel named Amen now give thanks for the rescue that changed their lives. A woman’s near-death experience with COVID-19 turned out to be the crisis freeing her from despair. Others speak to how prayer helped them navigate family trauma, overcome abuse, and cope with mental illness and depression. Historical accounts of miracles testify to God’s power throughout time, and Faulkner recounts the role of faith and prayer in her own life and the life of her father. Credit: Premier Collectibles; read more here.
Meet the Author
Harris Faulkner is a Six-time Emmy award-winning anchor and nationally bestselling author of 9 Rules of Engagement: A Military Brats Guide to Life and Success. Faulkner joined FOX News Channel in 2005 and currently anchors two daily daytime programs The Faulkner Focus and serves as the co-anchor of Outnumbered. Outside of her work as a journalist, Faulkner is a motivational speaker, writer, and philanthropist.
November 10, 2022
Cindy Di Xin Discusses Filmmaking & Emotions
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November 08, 2022
The Algebra of Happiness
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November 03, 2022
October 28, 2022
Celebrating Creators: Filmmaker Cindy Di Xin
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Meet Cindy Di Xin
Cindy Di Xin was born and raised in Nanning Guangxi, China. At 16 years of age, she started to study abroad in the United States. During her school years, she lived in Florida, California , Michigan and New York. She attended the University of Florida for her bachelor’s degree, School of Visual Arts in New York for her first master’s degree in Directing, and then Chapman University in California for her MFA in Film Production. Currently, she makes her home in Pasadena, CA, next door to Hollywood. She plans to submit her films to such film fests as the Berlin International Film Festival, British Independent Film Festival and the Palms Spring International Short Fest. She is currently working on her first feature film, a family drama, that is based upon her short film The day, at the Beach. Stay tuned for her upcoming interview with Authors by Sasha where she discusses how she approaches her craft of film making to create powerful performances. Learn more by visiting here.
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October 20, 2022
Zero to One by Peter Thiel
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October 13, 2022
October 06, 2022
The Second Mrs. Astor
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September 26, 2022
#Foodforthought The Unplugged Alpha
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Richard Cooper is an entrepreneur, private equity investor, YouTube content creator, high performance coach & author. Known for cutting through the BS and delivering the cold hard truth on many topics, including financial services, and intersexual dynamics between men and women, to learn more, visit "Entrepreneurs in Cars" on YouTube. Credit: The Unplugged Alpha and Richard Cooper.
September 21, 2022
The Miracle Morning by Hal Elrod
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September 15, 2022
Seasteading
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September 08, 2022
September 05, 2022
Corporate Canaries By Gary Sutton
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Overview
In today's tumultuous business environment, managers want guidance in the form of a timely theme, a unique and memorable metaphor, and outside-the-box thinking. That's precisely what Corporate Canaries delivers. The book features five core chapters revealing five common business hazards, and each lesson is accompanied by a story based on the author's grandfather's work in the coal industry, as well as an applicable "canary warning" for each theme.
Gary Sutton is a retired CEO, inventor and author. His BS is from Iowa State, he's an OPM alumnus of the Harvard Graduate School of Business and took postgrad work at Christ Church, Oxford. Credit: Corporate Canaries.
August 31, 2022
The Human Sales Factor by Lance Tyson
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August 26, 2022
Meet Gregory Shepard, Serial Entrepreneur & Writer
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August 19, 2022
Meet Speaker, Educator & Author Joseph Giampapa
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